We say what we really mean when we let our guards down, don't we? When we are at our most comfortable, when we are with friends, when we think no one else can hear us...we tell the truth.
Lest we forget how far this country needs to go to get to a better place in the ways we think about each other... Listen to the world around you and see what people say when they are comfortable. Ok, yes, I'm condoning the art of eavesdropping, but it's for educational research purposes! :)